Change...

Have you ever sat in a group of people and felt completely left out.. Have you ever been misunderstood by people close to you.. Have you gone ahead and done something that you know you shouldn't have... Even when others have made it amply clear to you that doing so would make them go in the opposite direction...

Why is it that human beings do things they know they shouldn't?

Someone once told me, get too close, too familiar, hold on too tight to me, and I will no longer be there... I still did it... He won't understand it was because I was scared....my fear is what may make me lose him... our are fears the cause of all problems... If only we could conquer our fears....

Change.. the only constant thing in life... the only way to reinvent ourselves... Change.. the one thing we do when we learn from our mistakes... Change... what circumstances forces us to do... Change.. a consequence of fear?

"All she had needed was the certainty of his love, and his reassurance that there was no hurry when a lifetime lay ahead of them. Love and patience- if only he had had them both at once- would surely have seen them both through. This is how the entire course of a life can be changed- by doing nothing."

Nothing more needs to be said..

The Secret

I recently began reading a book.. that i was introduced to by someone.. its called "The Secret". i'm still half way through it.. but some things i read are worth sharing and thinking about.. and maybe learning too..

"The Great Secret of Life is the law of attraction"

"The law of attraction says like attracts like, so when you think a thought, you are also attracting like thoughts to you"

"Your current thoughts are creating your future life. What you think about the most or focus on the most will appear as your life. Your thoughts become things"

"Like Alladin's Genie, the law of attraction grants our every command"

"The creative process helps you create what you want in three simple steps: ask, believe and receive. Asking the Universe for what you want is your opportunity to get clear about what you want. As you get clear in your mind, you have asked. Believing involves acting, speaking and thinking as though you have already received it, the law of attraction move people, events and circumstances for you to receive. Receiving involves feeling the way you will fell once your desire has manifested. Feeling good now puts you on the frequency of what you want."

"Create your day in advance by thinking the way you want it to go, and you will create your life intentionally"

"Expectation is a powerful attractive force. Expect the things you want, and don't expect the things you don't want"

"Gratitude is a powerful process for shifting your energy and bringing more of what you want into your life. Be grateful for what you already have, and you will attract more good things"

"To use the law of attraction to your advantage, make it a habitual way of being, not just a one-time event"


One thing that is interesting is that these steps, as the book calls it, for wisdom and fulfillment talks about "Expectation". Now, i think at some time or the other all of us have been told and maybe feel for ourselves that expectation is the cause of misery, because the minute human mind expects something from another, the chances of disappointment are high, and hence we are told that we should not expect. But the way this book goes to show, that if we expect with a positive view, it will get fulfilled, because the genie of the universe will grant us whatever we wish for. If what we wish for is coupled with negative thoughts, then it will grant us that wish.. by not giving it to us.. because we are not wishing with a clear and positive mind.. and we are not sure of what we want..

I am not sure if what i have written makes sense.. or if i have been able to bring my point across... but for the time being.. this is what i have understood.. !!

till later.. !!